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Your Own Site and Member Stores: MyMember, MYM or Self-Hosted

Your own member site keeps more of each sale and gives you your customer list, but nobody finds it on their own. Here is how own sites compare with marketplaces and how free sites feed them.

The Vaultmastr team · Updated 18 Oct 2026 · 3 min read

In short

  • An own site or member store is a site under your brand where fans pay you directly for memberships and single scenes.
  • It can keep more of each sale and gives you more control over your customers, but nobody finds it by accident.
  • Hosted platforms like MyMember.site handle payments and tech. Self-hosting gives full control and full responsibility.
  • Free sites, clip stores and socials are what drive traffic to it.

What "your own site" means

There are three common setups:

  • A hosted member site. A platform such as MyMember.site gives you a branded site, often on your own domain, and handles hosting, payments and compliance tools. You run the content and pricing.
  • A creator platform with your profile. Sites like MYM, OnlyFans and Fansly host your page, but it lives on their brand and their rules.
  • A fully self-hosted site. Your own hosting, your own software, your own adult-friendly payment processor. Most control, most work.

For most creators, their own site is never the biggest source of new buyers, but it is often where the most loyal fans end up.

How creators earn on an own site

Usually through a mix of:

  • Memberships. Monthly access to your full library, sometimes with tiers.
  • Single sales. People who do not want a membership can buy one scene.
  • Tips and messages. Paid messages and tips, much like subscription sites.
  • Bundles and promotions. Discounted trials or scene packs.

MyMember.site, for example, lists memberships, a clip store for non-members, tips, messaging and livestreaming on the one site.

Own site vs marketplaces

Own site or member store Marketplace or subscription site
Brand Yours The platform's
Built-in traffic None Some, varies a lot by site
Share you keep Often higher, check each platform Set by the platform
Customer relationship Closer, more data Mostly held by the platform
Rules Your processor's and the law's The platform's terms too
Work More setup and promotion Less setup, less control

The trade is simple. Marketplaces bring buyers but take a cut and own the relationship. Your own site keeps more and you own the brand, but you have to bring every visitor yourself.

How free sites and socials drive traffic

Your own site sits at the end of a chain. People rarely land on it first. They find you somewhere free, like you, and follow you home.

  • Tube sites show trailers and free scenes to people who have never heard of you. See clip stores vs tube sites vs subscriptions.
  • Clip stores sell scenes and build trust in your name.
  • Reddit and socials keep you in front of people who already follow you. See promoting on Reddit.
  • Your link page points all of it to one place.

Who an own site suits

  • Studios with a steady release schedule and a back catalogue.
  • Creators with an audience big enough to move some of it.
  • Anyone who wants a brand that does not depend on one platform's rules.

If you are just starting, build an audience on marketplaces first. See where to post adult content.

Questions people ask

Do I need my own site if I already have OnlyFans?

You do not need one, but it reduces your reliance on one platform. Many creators run both.

Is MyMember.site the same as OnlyFans?

No. It gives you your own branded site rather than a profile on a shared platform.

What is MYM?

A French creator platform with a mostly French and European audience, built-in search and its own commission rates.

Will people find my site through Google?

Some may, over time, but most traffic comes from free sites, clip stores and socials pointing to it.

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Written by the Vaultmastr team

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